I’ve notice that I’ve written a lot surrounding the
importance of not giving up lately and though that’s a message I think we
should all take heed of I feel I should have pointed out the importance of
giving up too, especially when you know in your heart it’s the right thing to
do. This week I came across someone that reminded me about the conflict that takes
place between a devoted heart and an unwilling mind… I feel as though we
struggle with the easiest choices sometimes, but we choose to question our thoughts
and actions due to feeling that the past we’re so accustomed to is a safer option to live with than
taking a risk and embracing something that could potentially be better. The
thing about life is safety will always be an illusion and the future, well that
will always be a mystery but it eventually becomes your reality and whether you
like it or not illusions are false for a reason.
Don’t dwell on the past too
much, apparently with a little faith if it’s meant to be it will.
I digress, sorry! Giving up is difficult for a lot of us and
it’s rare you’ll come across someone that definitely understands how hard it is
for you to go ahead and turn your back on something or someone you care dearly
about. We find that a lot of time we need support or guidance through the
toughest times and even later down the line after countless comforting speeches we're still left feeling empty. Please don’t repeat past mistakes because of feelings of loneliness or
emptiness it’s not worth it; if you know it was right to give up on then move
on, just keep moving! It's time you learn how to live for YOU, acknowledge it’s time for a
change and then use each day to focus on something different like creating new goals for the future or starting new
hobbies that may interest you.
I usually find it’s easier when you take it one day at a time,
surround yourself with good company learn to smile then laugh, learn to accept
your flaws, take responsibility, reach a point of self-actualization and
embrace new situations or things especially the scary ones – just enjoy the
feeling of freedom. So as I was saying earlier I feel we struggle with the
easiest choices in life because of the fear of letting go but unless we give up
how can we move on? Just remember because something is coming to an end doesn’t
mean life has nothing more to offer you.
“To make an end is to make a beginning. The end is where we
start from”. T.S Eliot.