Just give up!

I’ve notice that I’ve written a lot surrounding the importance of not giving up lately and though that’s a message I think we should all take heed of I feel I should have pointed out the importance of giving up too, especially when you know in your heart it’s the right thing to do. This week I came across someone that reminded me about the conflict that takes place between a devoted heart and an unwilling mind… I feel as though we struggle with the easiest choices sometimes, but we choose to question our thoughts and actions due to feeling that the past we’re so accustomed to is a safer option to live with than taking a risk and embracing something that could potentially be better. The thing about life is safety will always be an illusion and the future, well that will always be a mystery but it eventually becomes your reality and whether you like it or not illusions are false for a reason.

Don’t dwell on the past too much, apparently with a little faith if it’s meant to be it will.

I digress, sorry! Giving up is difficult for a lot of us and it’s rare you’ll come across someone that definitely understands how hard it is for you to go ahead and turn your back on something or someone you care dearly about. We find that a lot of time we need support or guidance through the toughest times and even later down the line after countless comforting speeches we're still left feeling empty. Please don’t repeat past mistakes because of feelings of loneliness or emptiness it’s not worth it; if you know it was right to give up on then move on, just keep moving! It's time you learn how to live for YOU, acknowledge it’s time for a change and then use each day to focus on something different like creating new  goals for the future or starting new hobbies that may interest you.

I usually find it’s easier when you take it one day at a time, surround yourself with good company learn to smile then laugh, learn to accept your flaws, take responsibility, reach a point of self-actualization and embrace new situations or things especially the scary ones – just enjoy the feeling of freedom. So as I was saying earlier I feel we struggle with the easiest choices in life because of the fear of letting go but unless we give up how can we move on? Just remember because something is coming to an end doesn’t mean life has nothing more to offer you.

“To make an end is to make a beginning. The end is where we start from”. T.S Eliot.