The truth is you're flawed – be proud of it!!!

Where do I start folks??? Hmmmm, I think our insecurities are definitely something we all struggle with and it's funny because sometimes I wonder why; I mean I think a lot of times we know how insignificant these little imperfections are but we still choose to dwell on them and I wonder if we do that because we desperately seek reassurance or if it's more about gaining attention or just having something to complain about. It's like that Jessie J song “who you are”, you find yourself in the mirror one day puzzled about this continuous need to just scrutinize these tiny errors you find with your appearance when all you need to know is that it's okay not to be okay – we're all flawed and that's the truth ladies and gents, be proud!

You know what's funny, I was listening to a youtuber earlier this month and he said that when you're struggling with your insecurities you don't want to hear about anyone else's flaws because you got yours so who care about theirs and I thought that was weird because a lot of us walk by each other on the street and if we're honest we're grateful that we don't have the flaws a lot of other people have but yet we have the nerve to go back home and dwell on the ones we do have after seeing life could have been a lot worse in that department. Oh, why do we always feel like our appearance needs more work than our personality, you think because people can't see what lies on the inside it matters less - it doesn't folks to some people like me appearance counts very little. It's like that quote by R.W Emerson everything "pales in comparison to what lies inside you"; stop focusing on those around you and learn to accept yourself as a flawed being that constantly needs to try being a better human being.

I find that sometimes we psychologically jump into the deep end without noticing and before you know it we're sinking in the depths of self doubt, so self-conscious about all those factors we over exaggerate, that we lack the ability to see that like a lifeguard help is right there, don't be too prideful to see that someone accept those flaws and see them as something beautiful. I've learn that it's better to come to terms with your flaws folks just absolutely accept them because when you live in denial and someone chooses to jab a knife in that open wound well...

And for all those folks that chooses to play super modest to avoid seeming conceited well you learn down the line that the truth is the truth and ain't a thing wrong with being narcissistic, when you got it you just got it. We're all given a talent, we all have a purpose even if it seems like we don't, we're all human and most of all we're all flawed be proud of that because in the words of One Direction it's the little things that adds up to you and you might as well love them folks.

“If you ever, ever feel like you're nothing, you're fxxking PERFECT! - Pink (Perfect)